Meet Ryan Alvar

I’m a dad, small-business owner, and advocate working to end intergenerational abuse. My mission is simple: protect children and reunite families by exposing how untreated trauma and broken policies fuel cycles of violence—often with the help of well-meaning but misled institutions.

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I created this site to share evidence, raise awareness, and offer a roadmap for reform so no child is separated from a fit, loving parent because of false allegations, bias, or ignored mental health.

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My Story

(and why I’m speaking out)

I have four children—Haven, William, Declan, and Sloane. My two youngest were separated from me after false allegations. On October 23, 2024, a Minnesota court found me a fit parent—yet I’ve been kept from my children for over a year.

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I documented everything: audio, police reports, court filings, and staff observations showing the children’s trauma and parental alienation. I spoke up. Instead of protecting my kids, the system censored me and even jailed me for posting a Guardian ad Litem report—the same report the state itself left public in the court docket.

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On July 7, 2025, I filed a federal civil rights complaint to hold officials, agencies, and enablers accountable. This fight is bigger than one family. It’s about due process, equal protection, free speech, and getting courts to take mental health seriously—no matter whether the abuse is coming from a mother or a father.