🌟 Big News – and I couldn’t be more proud. 🌟
- Ryan Alvar
- Nov 19, 2025
- 3 min read
Haven and William have officially launched their advocacy website:
Voices of Alienated Kids👉 https://www.voicesofalienatedkids.com/
This project is being built by young adults who have seen parental alienation firsthand — and who are creating a path for kids to overcome it at a time when no real roadmap exists.
They’re doing this in honor of their younger siblings, Declan and Sloane—children who are too young to speak up for themselves and who Haven and William have heartbreakingly been alienated from since July 2024.
Their work is shaped by that experience and dedicated to helping other families facing the same pain.
This platform is for children who want their alienated parent in their life, and for parents who want their children back in theirs.
This is about wanted connection, never forced connection.
Their mission is already taking shape:
✅ Educational resources to help kids understand parental alienation
✅ A peer-support community so no child feels alone
✅ Outreach to schools, teachers, counselors, and community programs
✅ A safe, third-party resource for reconnecting children with their non-custodial parent — fully within the legal protections of both the child and the parents
(Everything they build will respect the law and protect everyone’s rights and safety.)
✅ Future legislative advocacy to help shape laws so it’s no longer easy for one parent to alienate another parent from a child
Their website also links directly to their Facebook and Instagram, and they’re ready to get started.
💬 If you know ANY child experiencing parental alienation, please guide them — or a trusted adult — to the Voices of Alienated Kids website. Haven and William created this because so many kids are afraid to speak up or don’t know where to turn.
This isn’t just a website.
It’s the beginning of a movement for healing, reconnection, and reform.
And here’s why this matters:
Many children cannot go to their custodial parent for help when that parent is the one causing (or contributing to) the alienation.
But with support from Voices of Alienated Kids — and with the help of our community, schools, courts, law enforcement, family and friends — we can help build a safe, structured path toward reunification, including:
• Supervised visitation
• Unsupervised visitation
• Temporary custody
• Joint custody
• And long-term rebuilding of a healthy, stable parent-child relationship
(all dependent on each family’s unique circumstances)
Please visit their site, share it, and support their work. Every follow, every share, and every conversation could help a child take their first step toward reconnecting with the parent they love.
💙 Thank you for supporting them and helping amplify the voices of alienated kids everywhere.
🔁 Join the Fight for Reform
I have filed a federal civil rights lawsuit challenging systemic misconduct by judges, attorneys, and state agencies that has stripped parents of their rights and traumatized countless children.
With 27 defendants, including the State of Minnesota, this case seeks accountability — and reform.
Join me in taking this mission national.
How You Can Help:
✅ Sign the Petition: Urge DOJ to investigate family-court violations
✅ Subscribe: Stay updated — Contact
✅ Visit: www.ryanalvar.com
✅ Support the Fight: GoFundMe – Help Cover Legal Costs & Reform Efforts
✅ Follow & Share: Real Dad Initiative
✅ Contact Your Legislators: Demand oversight for Judges, GALs and transparency in family court.
Family-court reform won’t happen unless lawmakers hear directly from the people.
If what you’ve read here troubles you, don’t stop at signing the petition—call and email your state legislators. Tell them that what has happened in this case—and in so many others—proves we need oversight for judges and guardians ad litem, uniform due-process protections, and full transparency in family courts.
📬 Not sure who represents you? Find out here → 🔗 https://www.gis.lcc.mn.gov/iMaps/districts/
Across the country, I’ve heard from parents who’ve lost everything—some haven’t seen their children in years. When the system designed to protect families becomes the weapon that destroys them, it’s time for change. We must fix this broken family court system. Until that day, I’ll keep fighting—for our children, for truth, and for justice.
"505 days since my children were kidnapped. This isn't over."
Ryan William Alvar
Parent and Plaintiff
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